1 year:
I've
found that most parties for 1 year olds seem to have more adults than
children. If the adults are very playful, CircleSing! can last a whole
long time. Sometimes they're shy, so a shorter circle 30-35 minutes for
the kids combined with musical treats for the adults is very
entertaining. Be sure to consider naps and feeding times when you're
scheduling. Brunches often go well, and can actually be a very elegant affair.
2 years:
Scheduling
is extra important for 2 year olds. Usually 10 - 11 am works well for a
start time, or 4 - 4:30pm. Snacks just before any activity are always a
good idea. 2 year olds can be alternately very shy and eager to express
- the more individual support they get by an adult they know very well,
the more they are able to enjoy themselves. And once they start
enjoying themselves, they really like to move around! Lots of space
really makes them happy. Closer quarters tend to make them a little
more shy and, therefore, placid.
3 years:
are
taking up even more space and not quite so shy, so its great if you can
give them an alternately large and limited space - too much space and
they go off in adventure to the far outer reaches leaving the rest of
the party to marvel at their courageousness! If your space is quite small, you can plan for a quieter and often shorter activity
because, compelling tho I may be, parties are exciting making it hard
to sit still - that combined with the increased concentration of a
quieter activity can cause odd and explosive physical impulses.
Often,
3 year old guests like to demonstrate their independence and the power
of their friendships by participating without a caregiver. But don't turn around because they like to be watched - especially by the people that matter most!The 3 year old guest of honour can often become more shy and clingy
though - needing the steady security of a loved one to really enjoy the
festivities. They can get overtired from the stimulation and need
someone to cuddle with if they start to feel messy. 3 year olds can
often be in a complicated place, socially, and tend to be a little
higher maintenance, overall.

4 years:
Adult participation is not so intrinsic to a 4 year old party, but its good to have some big people around to help out with minor details and issues and to provide encouragement.
Also, non-participating adults should be given some breathing space
away from the activities at hand so as not to catch their easily distracted attention.
4 year olds are very adventurous and
love to try new things- It is easy to keep them
engaged for up to 45
minutes provided they are rested and fed and watered:p
Arts and crafts
also work really well at 4 year old parties - making cardboard crowns,
or even shakers out of paper plates or empty plastic containers and
couscous, oats,
rice can make an ideal pre-cursor to CircleSing!
5-9 years:
The
adults are thinning now as children begin to really enjoy exploring
their own ideas and power in the group. And Big Kids - especially
being longer now - like to move big! Their coordination and ability to
acquire melodies and movement is a lot more fluid and they tend to like
to be seen strutting their stuff. In the morning, that is...Mid-mornings are most preferable. Afternoon and Evening parties for Big Kids work especially for larger events and scheduled shortly after dinner or snack. Loud, lively and absurd, this kind of party gives everyone an opportunity to shake their sillies out at the end of a long day. Alternatively: a smaller, quieter event with a focus on storytelling and game playing
can also be quite enjoyable. At this age, days are more filled with programming and they tend to prefer to relax into a greater autonomy as it ends.
Children are obsessed with learning...they even like to learn while they're having fun! Even at a party, children are constantly putting their skills and knowledge to the test, whether its listing off all the species of dinosaur he knows or her jumping off two cushions instead of one or, even, finally figuring out how to clap your hands...children are eager to grow and CircleSing! is the perfect blend of lively entertainment and skill development.
Plan your circle at least a 30 minutes after arrival
or 45 minutes after food is served.
A clear space helps the children focus on the activity and avoid frustration; remove toys (especially noisy toys) or other distractions We can even make that part of the activities at hand! Battery operated noise/music making toys? It's a good idea to turn them off and/or put them away. If we're in a toy room, a clear space with all the toys against the wall will suffice. A room with a lot of echo can also cause auditory distraction, and sometimes its worth it to move an activity to a smaller room if possible - if not, we can modify the activities which may, however, shorten the program.
Let your guests know ahead of time that CircleSing! is an opportunity for children and adults to play together (I will too!)
Most children under three years of age need an older playmate to get the full CircleSing! experience. Ideally, there is one caregiver to each child (unless they're over three where it often works better if the adults are participating from the perimeter).
Don't be too concerned if your child doesn't participate, some kids feel most comfortable and happy watching while their friends sing and dance and get crazy. Lots of joy is processed on the inside. Parents should listen closely to these children - many have a tendency to give clues in sly twitchy fingers and feet and short, whispered bursts of song...don't be concerned but know that many of these children with clues are really hoping for some encouragement and support in to help them step out onto the road towards group play.
For birthday kids; sometimes they don't want to be the centre of attention.
They can prefer to hang back with mom or dad for a quiet time before and during the party. Participating from a distance can often be comfortable. Participating with a close friend or caregiver is always most enjoyable.
Situations are not always ideal but there is fun to be had everywhere!
I always do my best to make the most out of every situation; after all it's a child's party at stake.
I take that very seriously. And then I laugh lots too.

Where a little demonstration goes a long, long way.
We
apply our consistent attention to their activities so children feel
secure in the knowledge that what they are learning is valuable and
enjoyable to the people they care about most.
Even
(and, sometimes, especially) the most mundane routines can become opportunities for play, bonding, growth and development. When we turn these routines into games; when we
add simple chants and songs for guidance and entertainment; when we relax into the moment we can all accept the gentle pleasure that arises from the completion of the simplest of tasks.
Messages passed on to you, through me, from the Babes and the Big Kids that help us get the most value out of a CircleSing! Experience:
(because I have the words they haven't yet acquired)
There are three main ways we're playing to learn:
"You can show me how!
Whatever Daddy can do, I can do too - if not today, then someday!"
"You can help me!
Because I'm new and little, I need help to understand that my body works just like yours does.
If you move my arms or my legs for me; if you give me the experience of making things happen. It helps me learn how to do it for myself and it gives me confidence too!"
If you tap out a rhythm on my knee or my back; or if you move in time to a song, it's a lot easier for me to figure out what's going on so I can play too."
"You can watch me try!
Everything I learn and do has WAY more value when I share it with those I love...
things can happen spontaneously and, sometimes, only once - I'm really disappointed when you miss it!"
Also...
"Sometimes I can get a little over stimulated
and I may need a breather.
Sometimes, I need to feel free to step out and rejoin; gentle reminders to return to the circle if I'm distracted and encouragement if I'm unhappy or shy is always appreciated:)"
"Listen to me carefully and watch me closely.
You never know what I might want to learn! Or what YOU might learn from ME!
Pay close and careful attention to my actions and reactions for clues about what I'm ready for next; physically, mentally and emotionally."
In this way, you can help me learn how to listen carefully too."
