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Even
(and, sometimes, especially) the most mundane routines can become
opportunities for play, bonding, growth and development. When we turn these routines into games;
when we
add simple chants and songs for guidance and entertainment; when we
relax into the moment we can all accept the gentle pleasure that arises
from the completion of the simplest of tasks.
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"You
can
watch me try!
Everything I learn and do has WAY more value when I share it with those I love...things can happen spontaneously and,
sometimes, only once - I'm really disappointed when you miss it! When
you watch me and copy me, I know that I've been "heard" and understood -
connecting with another person like that makes me feel safe and happy.
And SOMETIMES it's better if you ignore me (but not really) - pay
attention!: I'll let you
know:)"
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"You
can show me how!
Whatever Daddy can do, I can do too - if not today, then someday!
Sometimes, I'll
sit very still and just stare but it's not because I'm not having fun ~
I'm examining your every movement and considering all that might be
involved in making them happen for myself: planning. Sometimes, when
I'm occupied with my hands and eyes, my ears are more finely tuned to
the magnificent sounds you are making and, one day, when I'm more
confident, I'll show you how I can make them too!"
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"You can help me!
Because I'm new and little, I need
help to understand that my body works just like yours does. If you move my arms or my legs for
me; if you give me the
experience of making things happen. It helps me learn how to do it for
myself and it gives me confidence too! If
you tap out a rhythm on my knee or my back; or if you move in time to a
song (and I can feel the tiniest of changes in your stride), it's a lot
easier for me to figure out what's going on so I can
play too."
Also...
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"Sometimes
I can get a little over stimulated
and I may need a breather.
This can be an intense experience for me, depending on where I'm at that
day. Some
days I'm growing and my body is achey and tired, some days I'm just
feeling blue and some days I just CAN'T concentrate! I don't know
why! (CircleSing!
can actually be a great reliever of a variety of ills when applied with
gentle persistence) There are lots of reasons I might need to feel free
to step out and rejoin; gentle reminders to return to the circle if I'm
distracted and encouragement if I'm unhappy or shy is always
appreciated:) I'm more likely to play along when I know I have a choice -
usually the play itself is enough motivate me anyway unless something's
wrong."
IMPORTANT NOTE:
Leaving and rejoining can turn into a
(disruptive) game all itself if not carefully managed. It is really only
necessary in more extreme situations (tantrums, violence, etc.)
Remaining in the Circle for minor issues can be an amazing learning and
bonding experience for us all.
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